
The best part of living in the Bay Area is that in between rainy days, we get really nice sunny days. Since my little 2 year old is bouncing off the walls, I thought it would be good to get outside. We have a small plum tree in our back yard that has a perfect place for Chia to sit. She loves to be way up in the tree, and I stand there in case she needs me. Sometimes I have to keep her from climbing too high out of my grasp. She's just so enthusiastic.
When I was her age I too used to spend time in my grandfather's plum tree. My cat Itchy and I would spend many hours just lounging in the comfortable spots that plum trees offer. The only difference is that I never got to do it in the middle of February, as I grew up in Maine, not California. To be out here today, enjoying the sun is very special. The rest of the country is shivering in sub zero weather.
Mom, Chia, and I often talk of moving somewhere else. Back east so that Chia can experience the four seasons, have a white Christmas, things like that. I instantly imagine winding winds of 15 below zero ripping across my face with sleet and snow everywhere, and I go, oh goodness me! I miss life on the east coast, but it's not easy. California is so cushy, warm, and mellow.
The only problem is that every day feels pretty much the same. I really don't feel any holiday spirit out here in CA, compared with holidays back east. The colored leaves in the fall, chilled air of Halloween, and a white Christmas really add to the celebration. Now that I have a kid, it's these kinds of things I want to share with her. Right now, we live 2 blocks from a giant mall.
What kind of memories do I want her to have? Running through grassy fields playing with kids, cats, dogs, swimming, boating and camping, or trips to Walgreen's, Trader Joe's, and Target? I think it's time to pack up all these toys, and move somewhere with more country life around us. A little family adventure, I think.
Then I sit back in the warm California sun and realize how insane it is to sit here enjoying the sun, and think about moving to a cold place. What to do?




